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Saturday, October 27, 2012

Success and failure

Success?Failure? - They are just a fine line between each other. All people in this world want to be the success person, no one want to be the failure. But there is no such thing in this world. If there is success, then there will also has failure. I take a current good example: Apple and Nokia. Last time all people using Nokia phone, but recently, Nokia left far behind from Apple i-phone. This world is fair for everyone, if u lose in competition, then u will lose to share the "cake". In Chinese, there is a quote "风水轮流转", means a person success doesn't means forever success.

Why there is a such thing of success and failure? A person that initially has the dreams might be the one that can be success in future, then failure happened if the person take the wrong steps or the person just has dreams but not taking any action, that means the person fail to achieve the dreams.

Yes, at first, we need to have dreams before we success, but dreams still far far away from success. Then "action" need to be taken in the process of success ur dreams. 《心动不如行动》. The "action" can be a lot of meaning; (hardworking, research, finding on the information and details, and more others)

Opportunity is sometimes needed in the support of smoothie the achievement of the dreams. Opportunity also can be many types; (PEST- politic, economy, social and culture, technology) are the 4 examples of the opportunity. If the opportunity is around in helping to achieve ur dreams, don't miss the chances, cuz opportunity is not always available, or it will not always waiting for u.

Threat and risks will make u harder to success ur dreams.西游记唐僧取西经也遇到种种妖精,但他没放弃,最后成功了咯. So, don't give up if facing the threats and high risks. Make urself stronger to fight against the threatens, if u successfully overcome all the threats, then congratz, u r almost success.

Speed also a important thing in achieving ur dreams. Use the higher and constant speed in finding the road to success.不要三分钟热度 means don't only powerful at the start of doing things, but become less and less impulse on the ways of success. If u can't keep up on the track, then u are fail. Try to find some motivation ways to motivate urself so u won't fail on the dreams achievement. Avoid urself to choose the wrong decision by listen to others opinion and try to analyse on the decision making to reduce the rate of failure. The person's personality and morality also can affects the success rate, so try the best in shaping to be good personality person.

Then success is waiting for u :)

Saturday, October 20, 2012

My family

It's very long time already i seldom back home since the started of my uni life, i just back home during the semester break and it was too short for me, i really miss my home and my family (My daddy, mummy and 2 sisters). Regret why i choose so far to continue my studies, haiz, if the time can turn back again , i will choose the uni that nearer to my house and i can go back home weekly, dreaming, lol.

~My family members and me ^^~

This picture is taken during celebration of my daddy birthday. Hehe, this year holiday ngam ngam meet with daddy birthday date. Long time already didn't have a family day like this, all stay together and talk together with full of happiness and sweetness. Time flies faster than rocket, now i already back to the loneliness study place. I hope the time can stop at this moment, then everyday will be a happy day. Wishes my daddy and mummy stay healthy and happily, also wishes my sisters and myself dreams come true :)
I rarely meet my elder sister during my holiday as her holiday time always different from mine :(

When i m a kids, i always blame why my parents always scold me, even i feel that i m not doing wrongly, now, i know their painstakingly, without their scolding, today i will become a part of rubbish, thanks my daddy and mummy. I feel sorry to my dad and my mum as i always rebel with their decision.

After i study in mmu, i also seldom calling my parents, I always use busy as the pretense but i spend lots of time in gaming, lol, useless son. Haiz, always make my parents worried about me but i never think from their side. 

I always act like a pro, when just study in mmu, i tell my parents that i can study well in engineering course, but i fail it, then i tell them i m not interest in engineering sector but in business sector, then i make a promises to them said i will do the best, but now what i m doing, my results dropped every semester, haiz, i disappointed them again. I tell my dad to invest in some place and i said this will earn money, but fail again, waste lots of money, what the fuck i m doing, nothing reach the target, everything fail. Even loss of money, my parents also not scolding me, but i can feel they disappointing on me. Now, i tell them i want to start my businesses, they didn't stopped me, but just telling me if want to do, then do it well. I hope this time i won't disappointing them again. Having my own business is also one of my dreams, i must do it well as a prove.

家,永远永远都是我们温馨和睦的地方,更是一个宽容错误的地方,有了家,便有了遮风挡雨的处所,灵魂便有了安妥孤寂的暖巢。