Questionmark ???

In the studies, in the exam,

we are finding the answer for the question.

In the presentation and talk,

we are explaining the solution for the audiences.

In the working,

we are looking for a better life.

In the communication with people,

we are trying to understand the opponent.

In the view of love,

we are searching for the right person as lifetime partner.

But there are lots of "question-mark" in between all the question and answer.

In facing those non-living organisms,

we just need to understand them and we have the correct solution.

But in the other way, 

in dealing with people,

it is so hard for us to find the problems,
after knowing the problems,
then the solution need to be find out,
then the solution applied might be wrong again since people change in every second.
It a long ways to understand a people,
For me, its the big question-mark.

2012 这一年

2012这一年，就这样划下了句号。

一年的时间，说长不长，说短不短，

但是，发生的事情，经历的事情，都不少。

伤心的日子多过开心的日子，

烦恼的日子多过开朗的日子。

这一年，是我最少回家的一年，

但我越来越想家了，

这一年，我才真正懂得家人的重要，

家人是最重要的支柱。

这一年，友情之间变化最大，

从一年前的一起读书，一起旅行，一起玩的日子，

大家行动一致，只有少许课业上的纠纷，

现在的一年后，朋友的争执多了，联络也少了，
但圈子大了些，

可能大家都越来越忙吧，

现在的我都是一个人度过，haiz, 不进则退。

这一年，我的成绩退步了，

功课越来越多了，

温习功课的时间也少了，

不再像之前的努力奋斗。

这一年，因为某些事，我自己也改变了，

变得没那么好胜，

变得没那么执着，

变得没那么有性格，

变得忍气吞声，

变得比较勇敢了，

但对你还是一成不变。

这一年，事事不顺，

希望2013将会是风生水起的一年。

失落时，孤单时，迷失方向时

每当我压力大的时候，我会把自己封闭起来，觉得自己不够坚定，处事态度不够成熟。
         
每当我独自一个人走在路上的时候，一个人呆在家的时候，我会胡思乱想，觉得自己很失落，很孤单。

每当我面对挫折和挫败的时候，我会觉得我迷失了方向，会觉得很想要放弃。

这一些不开心的时候，听一听激励人生的歌曲，就会觉得其实坚持下去，也可以找到色彩的自己。

不要认为自己没有用，每个人都是有用的人

自己的将来，自己的路，要自己走

坚持到底，终会有成功的一天

不要辜负父母与他人对我们的期望

生气时，听一听

世界末日

21 December 2012

世界末日，真的会到来吗？

你相信世界末日吗？

我们不必猜测了，还有20天，答案自有分晓。

这两天，我观看了YouTube内有关世界末日的视频，

一些专家说21/12/2012 刚好是太阳，银河系和地球刚好成为一条直线，

极场移动，会造成极大的天灾，

一些则说会有一颗成为Nibiru 的星球会撞向地球，

不管答案是什么，我还是希望这一切都不会发生。

我的人生刚要重启点开始，

我有很多很多事想要去完成，

很多想要经历的事情，

我不想那么早死，也可以说是我怕死。

如果21号就是世界末日，

你在末日之前最想要做什么？

会不会先完成你最想完成的事？

末日，是个传说？还是惩罚人类的残忍？惩罚人类对环境的破坏？

妒忌。。。羡慕。。。输不起。。。

妒忌。。。羡慕。。。输不起。。。

妒忌。。。
是个人问题？
还是每个人都有的毛病？
“忌”，肯定是自“己”的“心”里出了问题。

羡慕。。。
是用于以欣赏的角度。

输不起。。。
基本上应该是不好的心态，
但有时候可以用于增强自己，不断进步。

Stress....a powerful motion

Since when start,

i feel that i m so stressful, this feel of stress never come to me before,

now think it back, its like before the start of this sem, i already feel that this sem won't be easy anymore.

Someone tell me that i put too much tension on myself make myself stress,

 but that is not the fact, i m not a person that very hardworking, 

although i wishes to finish everything perfectly... just wishes but no action taking, equal to 0.

Or i think that i m too pro, can finished all the thing under control with my palm,

and i think i can focus on everything at the same time,

studies, fyp, business

WTF i m doing, i m not superman,

everything going not so smoothly with what i think,

People said when u feel that the question is hard, only feel but not try, then u will hardly to get the answer,

if u have a try on it, then sometimes it is easy,

that depends on how people think about it.

Compared to Obama, the top entrepreneur, and many others successors,

my tasks is just the small ant, 

how can i considered that as stress,

so when we feel wanna give up, 

try to think off there are lots of people face many many times of stress more than us,

think that success is just few more step to reach, 

then we might feel better.

Everyone wishes to become a perfect man, 

but in the real world, how many percent of people success in their sense of success, 

10%, 20% or 100%,

without taking any action or movement, although u have a very simple dreams, it will also won't be success.

Its not just 2 or 3 days to become success, its take long time, tons of hard-work we paid.

A person wishes to fly higher and higher, 

they will neglect most of the things beside or around him or her,

we are just human, can't take care for everything, get everything,

but we can focus on the pathway that we had make decision on it.

I wishes i m a part of the 10% of human being that really success in this world,

i want myself to be different rather than normal,

i know this journey won't be easy,

but i must do my best to achieve this mission,

although i know the road is fully cover with challenges,

and the journey might be so long,

but sometime become the hero also very meaningful.

i love the quotation:

miracle only will happen on the people who never give up

let fight against all the stumbling stone that block our road towards success,

then we will feel the brightest of the success.

Success and failure

Success?Failure? - They are just a fine line between each other. All people in this world want to be the success person, no one want to be the failure. But there is no such thing in this world. If there is success, then there will also has failure. I take a current good example: Apple and Nokia. Last time all people using Nokia phone, but recently, Nokia left far behind from Apple i-phone. This world is fair for everyone, if u lose in competition, then u will lose to share the "cake". In Chinese, there is a quote "风水轮流转", means a person success doesn't means forever success.

Why there is a such thing of success and failure? A person that initially has the dreams might be the one that can be success in future, then failure happened if the person take the wrong steps or the person just has dreams but not taking any action, that means the person fail to achieve the dreams.

Yes, at first, we need to have dreams before we success, but dreams still far far away from success. Then "action" need to be taken in the process of success ur dreams. 《心动不如行动》. The "action" can be a lot of meaning; (hardworking, research, finding on the information and details, and more others)

Opportunity is sometimes needed in the support of smoothie the achievement of the dreams. Opportunity also can be many types; (PEST- politic, economy, social and culture, technology) are the 4 examples of the opportunity. If the opportunity is around in helping to achieve ur dreams, don't miss the chances, cuz opportunity is not always available, or it will not always waiting for u.

Threat and risks will make u harder to success ur dreams.西游记唐僧取西经也遇到种种妖精，但他没放弃，最后成功了咯. So, don't give up if facing the threats and high risks. Make urself stronger to fight against the threatens, if u successfully overcome all the threats, then congratz, u r almost success.

Speed also a important thing in achieving ur dreams. Use the higher and constant speed in finding the road to success.不要三分钟热度 means don't only powerful at the start of doing things, but become less and less impulse on the ways of success. If u can't keep up on the track, then u are fail. Try to find some motivation ways to motivate urself so u won't fail on the dreams achievement. Avoid urself to choose the wrong decision by listen to others opinion and try to analyse on the decision making to reduce the rate of failure. The person's personality and morality also can affects the success rate, so try the best in shaping to be good personality person.

Then success is waiting for u :)